Lydia Louise Best Stathum, 86 was called home on Feb 3, 2026. She was born in Long Branch, NJ on Feb 21, 1939, to her parents Irving R. Best Sr. and Loretta C. Best. Lydia’s brothers and sisters include Thomas Best (deceased), Irving Best Jr. (wife Joan), Clifford Best (deceased), Russell Best Sr. (wife Catherine), Dorthea Wilson, Eunice Fisher (deceased) Peggy McPherson (husband Samuel), Tina Wyatt (deceased) and Life Partner Daniel Febus.
Lydia attended the Long Branch School System. She married Nathan Stathum Jr. (deceased) and they gave birth to 6 children Nathaniel C. Stathum (Nat)/wife Michelle, Lydia D. Stathum (Niecy) deceased, Yvonne L. Stathum (Evie), Anthony C. Stathum (Clyde), Michael K. Stathum (Michael) and Raymond Stathum (Ray).
Lydia had a host of cousins, nieces, nephews, grandchildren and great grandchildren.
Lydia was a former member and sang with the choir of both the A.M.E. Zion Church in Red Bank and The Trinity A.M.E. Church in Long Branch. She worked for many years at the Red Bank School System and the Monmouth Day Care Children Center. Lydia was a member of the Red Bank Red-Etts Woman’s Softball Team and attended the Red Bank Senior Center. She was a devoted Dallas Cowboy, Ohio State Buckeye Football and NY Yankees Baseball Fan. Lydia was greatly loved by many friends and colleagues, where most considered her to be like a mom to them.
My Dear Extended Family,
Sorry about Aunt Lydia. Wishing you comfort and peace during this difficult time. Thank you for sharing Aunt Lydia with me, know that I’m praying for you.
Love Always,
Cydnei (Ashlyn’s Mom)