Bruce Allen Hodges passed away peacefully, surrounded by family, on May 17, 2025, in Neptune, New Jersey. He was 82.
Born on October 18, 1942, in Brooklyn, NY, Bruce was the beloved son of Lucy Roberta Mitchell and Robert Ellis Hodges. During his teenage years, he moved to Belmar, NJ, to live with his grandparents. There, he attended Manasquan High School, where he quickly became a standout student and athlete—playing football, being crowned Junior Prom King, and serving as Class President. He graduated in 1961.
Bruce continued his education at Fisk University in Tennessee before returning to Brooklyn, where he began working at WPIX Radio alongside his father. Starting in the mailroom, Bruce's dedication and talent propelled him to the role of Program Director. He later accepted a position at KYW Radio in Philadelphia and went on to work for Greyhound Bus Company under the leadership of Joe Black, former Negro League pitcher for the Brooklyn Dodgers and Executive for Greyhound Bus Company.
Bruce was also an entrepreneur. He owned Peyton Place, a bar in Camden, NJ, and co-owned The Road Runner—a bar and limousine service—with his close friend Robert “Bob” Gilliom. The two shared not only a birthday but a deep bond of friendship and partnership.
A true lover of life, Bruce especially enjoyed the thrill of the racetrack. From New Jersey and New York to Texas, he found joy and excitement in the energy of the races. His passion for people was just as strong—he was known for his warmth, generosity, and magnetic personality. To know Bruce was to love him. He had a way of making everyone feel seen, heard, and valued.
Bruce is survived by his devoted partner of nearly 38 years, Stella “Queen” Gainey; his former wife, Cheryl Hodges-Butts; his sister, Wendy; his children: Tracey Hodges, Bruce (Justice) Hodges, Michael Kerr and Stacey Wright, as well as a host of step children Crystal, Valerie, Michelle, Kevin, Diamond and Michael; and a host of grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces, nephews, extended family, and dear friends.
Bruce Allen Hodges was deeply loved and will be profoundly missed by all who knew him.
REST PEACEFULLY IN GOD’S LOVING ARM’S DADDY 🙏🏾
I first met Bruce in the late 1950s, either 1958 or 1959, in Belmar, New Jersey. Our family had just purchased a home on E Street, and Bruce was one of the first people I encountered in this new neighborhood. At that time, I remember thinking he was somewhat “square” because of how he interacted with adults and others around him. He made eye contact, shook hands firmly, and carried himself with a confidence that I envied.
As the years passed, Bruce became an integral part of my summers spent in Belmar alongside some other friends. However, after graduating high school in 1961, life took us on different paths and I lost track of him for many years. Yet, even during those times apart, thoughts of Bruce remained with me.
In 1986, we had a reunion back in Belmar where I saw him and Reggie for the first time in ages. It was a heartwarming experience that rekindled our friendship. Fast forward to 2016; we gathered again for another reunion—this time in Virginia Beach. That occasion was particularly special as it allowed me to catch up with Bruce and learn about his life’s journey since we last met.
Bruce Hodges was someone I always admired deeply; he possessed an ethical and affable nature that drew people to him. His knowledge of music and various subjects was impressive; he had a way of sharing insights that made conversations engaging and enlightening.
When I met Stella, it became clear why they were such a perfect couple—their connection radiated warmth and understanding. Over the years, Bruce would often check in on me with his signature greeting: “How you doing, Doc?” He had an uncanny ability to sense when something was amiss and would encourage me to speak openly about it.
Then came the day when Stella called with devastating news—Bruce had been involved in an accident. In that moment, my world shifted profoundly for the worse. Despite holding onto hope for his recovery, when she delivered the news of his passing, my life changed forever.
I will miss you dearly, Bruce. You were not just a friend but a guiding light whose presence enriched my life immeasurably. Your kindness and wisdom will always be cherished memories etched into my heart. I loved you then; I love you now—and always will.
Straight Ahead Champ